Support a Child
Prevention Begins With Awareness
When our community knows how to recognize the signs of abuse and respond appropriately, children are better protected. Explore Nashville Children’s Alliance prevention tools and resources to learn how you can help create safer environments for children and strengthen our community’s response to abuse.
Why Prevention Matters
Preventing child abuse is an adult responsibility. Every adult has a role in recognizing warning signs, responding appropriately, and taking action to protect children from harm. When adults are informed and prepared, abuse is more likely to be identified early or prevented altogether. Prevention strengthens families and communities by creating safer environments where children can grow, learn, and thrive. Through awareness, education, and accountability, we can work together to ensure every child is protected.
Supporting Your Child: What Caregivers Should Know
Starting the Conversation
Talking openly and regularly with your child helps build trust and creates opportunities for them to share concerns, questions, or uncomfortable experiences. Make conversations about safety a normal part of everyday life rather than a one-time discussion. Use age-appropriate language and remind your child that they can always come to you if something makes them feel confused, scared, or uncomfortable.
How to Talk to Your Child
When discussing personal safety, stay calm, approachable, and nonjudgmental. Encourage your child to ask questions and express their feelings. Teach them that their body belongs to them, that they have the right to say "no" to unwanted touch, and that safe adults will respect their boundaries. Reassure them that they can always talk to a trusted adult if something doesn't feel right.
Asking the Right Questions
Use open-ended questions to encourage conversation and help your child develop confidence in talking about their experiences. Questions such as “How was your day?”, “Did anything make you uncomfortable today?”, or “Who are the adults you trust if you need help?” can create opportunities for meaningful discussion. Listen carefully and without judgment, allowing your child to share freely. The goal is to foster open communication and help children feel safe speaking up before a problem occurs.
Knowing Who Your Child Is With
Be aware of the adults and older youth your child spends time with, including caregivers, coaches, family friends, and online contacts. Regularly check in about their interactions and help them understand safe and unsafe boundaries.
Staying Vigilant at Home
Pay attention to changes in your child’s behavior, mood, sleep, or routines. While these changes do not always indicate abuse, they can signal that something is wrong and may warrant further attention or support.
If Your Child Discloses Abuse
If your child discloses abuse, remain calm, listen carefully, and thank them for telling you. Reassure them that you believe them, that the abuse was not their fault, and that they did the right thing by speaking up. Allow your child to share information in their own words without interrupting, questioning extensively, or asking leading questions. Avoid expressing shock, anger, or disbelief, as these reactions may discourage further communication. Focus on providing comfort, support, and reassurance while taking steps to ensure your child's safety. Report the disclosure to the appropriate authorities or a Child Advocacy Center so trained professionals can conduct a proper investigation and connect your family with needed resources.